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Strangers and Intimates

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A brilliantly original history of privacy with a simple and urgent argument: private life is a precious and sustaining resource that must be defended.

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ISBN: 9781529034189 Category: British History Tags: Ethical & social aspects of IT, History of ideas, Social & cultural history, Sociology
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An Economist Book of the Year
‘An intricate cultural history . . . Thought-provoking’
– The Sunday Times
‘Brilliantly original . . . Endlessly fascinating’ – Alice Loxton, author of Eighteen
‘Lucid and elegant’ – The Daily Telegraph

From ancient times to our digital present, Strangers and Intimates traces the dramatic emergence of private life, and argues that it is now in mortal danger.

In this sweeping history, acclaimed cultural historian Tiffany Jenkins takes readers on an epic journey, from the strict separations of public and private in ancient Athens to the moral rigidity of the Victorian home, and from the feminists of the 1970s – who declared that ‘the personal is political’ – to the boundary-blurring demands of our digital age.

Strangers and Intimates is both a celebration of the private realm and a warning: as social media, surveillance and the expectations of constant openness reshape our lives, Jenkins asks a timely question: can private life survive the demands of the twenty-first century?

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Weight 0.314 kg
Dimensions 19.7 × 13.1 × 2.8 cm
Author

Jenkins, Tiffany

Publisher

Picador

Imprint

Picador

Cover

Paperback

Pages

464

Language

English

Edition
Dewey

323.448 (edition:23)

Readership

General – Trade / Code: K

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